Do we need all our possessions?

When we travel – do we travel light?

We spend a lifetime collecting possessions. Our homes are full of beautiful things. Our wardrobes bursting with clothes. Shelves full of things to read and listen to.

Why?

Do we think these validate who we are? Do we want to be with people who are only impressed by the things we own?

These possessions can hold us back. Stop us doing things.

A wise man said to me – the size of the pack you carry when camping is a reflection of the karma you carry within.

Wow. That gave me something to think about.

I’ve moved from a 4-bedroom house to a 2-bed flat, and I would probably be fine in something smaller. It was easy to get rid of possessions. But still too much. Still two filing cabinets in the garage that haven’t been opened for a year. Still excess clothes in vacuum packs under the bed. I’ll be emptying them soon. I’m not going to look too closely, if I haven’t needed to look before, why look now?

These are the obvious things that we carry about.

But there are also the things we carry within.

Resentments, disappointments, envy, sadness. Frustration, fear, grief. Shame, doubt, overwhelm. And more.

How well does it serve us to keep them with us?

How much space could be filled for growth and wisdom if we could let some of these things go.

What is stopping you?

What holds you back?

Is NOW the time to say goodbye?

Begin to notice.

Notice the things that serve you, and the things that don’t serve you.

It could be looking at the shelf and pulling out a dozen books or CDs to take to the charity shop.

But it could also be to notice a feeling or characteristic within. I’ve listed a few above, and there are many more.

Pay attention.

Notice the feelings you have.

Ask yourself if this is something that serves you. And if not, can you let it go?

Imagine the lightness to let something go.

You want this image to be stronger, brighter, clearer. So that it supports you in moving on.

I’m with you. I want you to feel the calmness of letting things go.

… let me know how you get on.

 

this article first appeared here

Related Posts
Longer Term

How to Care for Your Elderly Parents on a Busy Schedule

Caring for elderly parents is a noble and often challenging responsibility, especially when balancing a busy schedule. Whether you're managing...
Read More
Longer Term

Adapting Your Home to Meet the Needs of Aging Loved Ones

Adapting your home to meet the needs of aging loved ones is essential for ensuring their comfort, safety, and independence....
Read More
Longer Term

The Importance of Creating Lasting Memories

Creating lasting memories with loved ones is one of the most cherished aspects of life. We often find ourselves reminiscing...
Read More
Longer Term

Planning a Memorable Farewell: A Guide to Arranging a Funeral

Arranging a funeral is an emotional and often overwhelming process. It requires careful planning and consideration to ensure that the...
Read More
Retirement

Tick it Off Your Bucket List

As we get older, it's essential to start thinking about the future and getting our affairs in order. This isn't...
Read More
Retirement

3 Ways To Improve Your Quality of Life After Retirement

Image credit Retirement, a phase of life that can be a welcome change for those who have worked their entire...
Read More
Retirement

3 Retirement Tips To Live Your Best Life

Retirement should be something everyone looks forward to. It’s where you can sit back and do what you want without...
Read More
Positive Ageing

Don’t Let These 6 Things Stop You Living Your Best Life as You get Older

Aging: it’s not for the faint-hearted, but let’s be honest, the alternative is worse. As the years tick by, it's...
Read More
Turning 60

20 benefits to getting older

Reduced fear of failure: With age, we often become more resilient and less afraid of taking risks or trying new...
Read More
Self-Understanding

We should act from compassion

There is something about spending time with Buddhist teachers; they radiate calmness and happiness.  I always feel more at peace....
Read More
Money Retirement

Getting your state pension

Early May, about 4 months before I reach my 66th birthday I received a letter, inviting me to claim for...
Read More
Inspiration Retirement Self-Understanding

Letting go ….

Do we need all our possessions? When we travel – do we travel light? We spend a lifetime collecting possessions....
Read More
Elderhood Longer Term

Life at 80 – how AI will change our future

Let's imagine my future. In less than 15 years I'll be 80! Introduction In the year 2038, as you turn...
Read More
Health & Wellbeing

Improving Health Span: The Key to a Long and Healthy Life

As I review the health chapter of my forthcoming book, I was reminded about the difference between health span and...
Read More
Retirement

The Mental Health Benefits of Working Beyond Retirement Age

Retirement is often associated with a well-deserved break from work and a chance to enjoy leisure time. However, research suggests...
Read More
Positive Ageing

Positive Ageing

Positive ageing is “the process of maintaining a positive attitude, feeling good about yourself, keeping fit and healthy, and engaging...
Read More
Retirement Self-Understanding

What is a meaningful life?

A meaningful life can be defined as a life that has a sense of purpose, fulfilment, and significance. It is...
Read More
Elderhood Retirement

On turning 90

My mum has recently turned 90, she is now old-old. She is still living independently with the help of carers...
Read More
Ageism Health & Wellbeing Retirement

Stay engaged and involved to increase your well-being

Research from the Sloan Centre on Aging & Work at Boston College has found that when older adults are actively engaged in...
Read More
Retirement

Do we need to stay working to maintain strong mental health?

I regularly read academic papers to ensure there is an evidence base to the work I do with my clients...
Read More

Let’s start to get to know each other.

I’d love to send you a series of articles to get you thinking of your wider life. You will also receive my mid-week 50+ update and the Amazing People newsletter.
Denise Taylor

Chief Inspiration Officer, The 50 Plus Coach.