On turning 90

On turning 90

My mum has recently turned 90, she is now old-old. She is still living independently with the help of carers who come and help. This is as much for conversation and companionship; her husband and 2 long term relationships have all died and she feels lonely. In the...
I know my own mind

I know my own mind

I know my own mind This stage of life where we consider retirement in all its forms is a time when we can drop the masks and be true to who we are. If we don’t will we carry on trying to fit in and if we do, at what cost to us? One of the things I like about getting...
Elderhood – an introduction

Elderhood – an introduction

We all get older, but we don’t all get wise. I’m interested in Elderhood, a stage of life where we can become the ‘wise elder’ of our community, both local and further away. I’m reminded of other societies, who don’t follow the Western model. In our communities,...